God is Gentle and Loves Gentleness in all Matters
A mother loves her children, a father loves his family, someone loves a brother and even someone else he doesn't know very well.
This is the nature of a human being, if he believes in Allah.
However, because of ego, lust or momentary interest, many human beings are then turned into violent, violent, and cruel people.
In fact, ego, lust, and the importance of a moment in no way give good.
So it is natural that people who are rude, violent, and cruel will not get pleasure from Allah SWT because God does not love except tenderness.